To the stars.

When I was a senior in college, there was a season when I grew desperate for the stars.

I’m not quite sure why.

Transcendentalism?

Nostalgia?

Spirituality?

I suppose it might have been a blend of all three. However, as I found myself waiting for the future—which could be anything, which could go anywhere, which might never arrive—the bold hope of graduate school at Oxford made me crave the constellations at night.

I imagined tipping back on the quad in front of our townhouse and drinking in the distant light of far off spaces, reminding myself that as sailors found their way amidst endless, sometimes violent seas, so too would I find mine.

But the stars never came. Night after night clouds gathered as dusk set in, blanketing the sky, tucking stars and their stories safely away. I grew restless each evening as I left the library, hopeful that tonight would be the night for stars. The waiting started buzzing in my head. Still the clouds continued gathering, and eventually they brought with them unrelenting rain. That April saw more rain in Memphis, Tennessee than the last twenty years.

By that April I knew I wasn’t going to Oxford. The stars had withheld themselves, and so had my dreams. So the rain poured. I grieved, and I waited, and the rain poured.

I grew sick with rain.

“No more!” I thought. Not that my thoughts mattered. Clearly my longing carried little weight with the Cosmos-Maker. He was more than content to let the chaos of flooding reign.

Eventually, a plan did present itself for my life. Not graduate school, but a writing job, one that ultimately set the trajectory for my career. Through that job, I grew some roots and started cultivating a more grounded, honest, and present life.

When it comes to dreaming, waiting can feel maddening. Hope can feel scary.

The invitation in these moments is to honor that something is becoming—in me and out in the world. And sometimes rain is part of that becoming.

These days, I still crave a look at the stars, but I also love the consistency of the trees I find on my daily walks. Growing to the heavens. Rooted in the earth. Strong, steady, and memoried. Made all the stronger by rain.